Great shaves Rich. I am going to bounce around in my reply as it has been a while. I had a 71 T-Bird that was Raven Black, had a 429 Thunderjet engine, and four doors that opened suicide. This was the last model year Ford put 4 doors on a T-Bird. The car was my Father's and he bought it slightly used from the Ford dealer in 1972 or 1973. It was used by the dealership owner's mother, and had very low miles. Dad was a salesman and had to cover a sales territory that resulted in him buying a new car about every other year, and he was a Ford man. The car just prior to this one was a 1971 Ford LTD, so the Ford dealer loved my dad. At any rate, he drove it until it had about 90,000 miles on it, then he had the engine re-built. But since he made his living working on the road, he did not trust it enough to be a daily driver without a backup. So he replaced it with a Lincoln Mark IV. By this time I was in the Marine Corp, so I purchased the T-Bird from him. Now that was a very nice ride.
On the downsizing front, we are not yet seriously thinking about it. But we both know it is in our future, probably sooner rather than later. If I were in a situation where I was facing it head on right now, I would not know where to start either. Good luck with working through this very difficult, but probably very necessary, stage in your life.