Watching your video now...and I have to agree!"Feelin' good" - Don
"Lookin' good" - Dave
Yeah...we are talking about doing a recording if it's allowed. So far everything has been okay on this front. But soon we will have some important doctor visits that I would like to be there for.Maybe someone can record it for you?
This scent combination reminds me of sitting at my local coffee shop here in Southern Louisiana and drinking a cafe au lait and munching on some beignets. Oh, so delicious! Beignets are types of doughnuts. Therefore, D is for Doughnuts!
Or maybe video call (I know you don’t FaceTime) into the appointment? I know they’ve relaxed a lot of the telehealth platform requirements during this time. Wouldn’t seem like a big deal with patient consent (particularly because you aren’t the patient). It makes me sad that you’re missing the early visits, as hearing the heartbeat and things is pretty special. Plus, you’re a guy with a lot of questions so I’d expect you’d add something to the appointment!Yeah...we are talking about doing a recording if it's allowed. So far everything has been okay on this front. But soon we will have some important doctor visits that I would like to be there for.
Or maybe video call (I know you don’t FaceTime) into the appointment? I know they’ve relaxed a lot of the telehealth platform requirements during this time. Wouldn’t seem like a big deal with patient consent (particularly because you aren’t the patient). It makes me sad that you’re missing the early visits, as hearing the heartbeat and things is pretty special. Plus, you’re a guy with a lot of questions so I’d expect you’d add something to the appointment!
My wife is 30 weeks pregnant (surprise!) with our second. She is down to bi-weekly visits at this point. I’ve not been going since our ultrasound—partly because it’s our second (we’re old pros now) and now because of the current situation. Though they’ve not prohibited me as of yet. Thankfully, my wife had a routine pregnancy the first time around and is having the same to this point, so that gives me some comfort. The fear is that they’ll impose some sort of no visitor requirement (like NY) when she delivers and prevent me from accompanying her to the hospital. Nothing like that in place now on the west side of Michigan (things are pretty positive here as compared to the east side/Detroit), so hopefully that remains the case.
Anyway, long way of saying that I feel your pain and can understand what your going through. Stay strong brother!
Thanks guys! Baby isn't due until October so I am hopeful things will be different by then.One visitor in L&D is one of our visitor exceptions.
This needs to happen world wide...right now!This scent combination reminds me of sitting at my local coffee shop here in Southern Louisiana and drinking a cafe au lait and munching on some beignets.
I went looking for your journal and couldn't find it to congratulate you so I'll do it here.Or maybe video call (I know you don’t FaceTime) into the appointment? I know they’ve relaxed a lot of the telehealth platform requirements during this time. Wouldn’t seem like a big deal with patient consent (particularly because you aren’t the patient). It makes me sad that you’re missing the early visits, as hearing the heartbeat and things is pretty special. Plus, you’re a guy with a lot of questions so I’d expect you’d add something to the appointment!
My wife is 30 weeks pregnant (surprise!) with our second. She is down to bi-weekly visits at this point. I’ve not been going since our ultrasound—partly because it’s our second (we’re old pros now) and now because of the current situation. Though they’ve not prohibited me as of yet. Thankfully, my wife had a routine pregnancy the first time around and is having the same to this point, so that gives me some comfort. The fear is that they’ll impose some sort of no visitor requirement (like NY) when she delivers and prevent me from accompanying her to the hospital. Nothing like that in place now on the west side of Michigan (things are pretty positive here as compared to the east side/Detroit), so hopefully that remains the case.
Anyway, long way of saying that I feel your pain and can understand what your going through. Stay strong brother!
Thanks Dave—it’s been a long time since I updated my journal... so I thought I’d steal Don’sI went looking for your journal and couldn't find it to congratulate you so I'll do it here.
CONGRATULATIONS
It is something that I have thought about too. Things will likely be better in October for the wife and I...but for all those people...like your Grandfather...who rely on family and friends for support...have to go to their appointments alone. My heart just goes out to them. On the other side of things...it's just not worth the risk. Especially for those who will be in an immuno-compromised situation. Just know that the health care workers are looking out for them.Hey Don... You touched on something pretty sad about this whole situation.
My brother in law and sister in law are pregnant with their first. About as far along as you are. He was told he can't go to anymore appts. But as of right now can be at labor and delivery but only him.
Another sad thing about all this is my grandpa who is getting chemo and radiation. My grandma can't go with him. So she drives him to the hospital and sits in the car. The nurse calls when he is done and she drives around and they help load him into the car. I feel really bad for all the other people this is effecting. This virus has literally changed every aspect of our lives.
It is something that I have thought about too. Things will likely be better in October for the wife and I...but for all those people...like your Grandfather...who rely on family and friends for support...have to go to their appointments alone. My heart just goes out to them. On the other side of things...it's just not worth the risk. Especially for those who will be in an immuno-compromised situation. Just know that the health care workers are looking out for them.
You bet we will!I 100% agree. If people are complaining about the health care workers for enforcing these new rules.... They are crazy! This is smart and hard. But together as a society we will get through it.