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DeepSea’s Journal

Brave to open up here John on your personal struggle. Unfortunately I know not only the pains of a mental health crisis in a loved one but also the struggle of trying to find the proper help for the loved ones with it. I'm happy you found the right help and are seeing improvements and praying the upward trajectory continues.
Thank you Dave. I’m sorry you had to be on the other side of it. It was hard on my family but luckily my wife didn’t give up on me and kept pushing me to get the help I needed.
 
That is a very big step in sharing that with us. Thank you for the trust. I’m glad you were able to recognize the issue and had the courage to seek help. Great news that you found a program that was able to help and that you are making progress. I hope that your life continues to improve with each passing day.
Thank you Tim. The program was great and I made some good friends in the process.
 
I’ll also echo what others have said. Very glad to hear that things are going in a positive direction. And yes this site with it’s members. Is a sanctuary where we can go and be among friends. A virtual barbershop.
My local barbershop that I used to go to. Is still owned by two Italian brothers. And was always a uplifting place to go. I didn’t realize how much we can miss that fellowship. Until TSC.
Thanks for sharing your story. I am certain it will inspire others to seek out help if they need it.
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Thanks Ken! If my story can plant a seed in even one person’s mind that thing CAN get better it would be awesome!
 
Depression sucks. I've struggled with living with someone with Depression, and then years later dealt with it myself. Glad you found the appropriate help and are on your way to getting back. We're always here for you Brother!
Thanks KJ! Depression is no joke once you feel like you went past the point of no return. I don’t wish it upon anyone.
 
Good on you John for having the courage to seek help. Twelve years ago I was in a major depression and finally, out of desperation, I sought professional help. I've been in treatment since then, and generally fine. (y) (y)
Thank you Bruce! I’m happy you were able to get yourself some help as well. It’s like stepping out of a dense fog.
 
Strong work, hermano. It's hard as hell to gather the courage to ask for help. Keep it up, but remember that life comes in waves; try not to let it knock you on your ass, but if it does, you have people around you willing to help pick you up again.
Thanks Ben! I’m finally learning how to let the waves go past instead of trying to fighting against them.
 
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Went for some top shelf gear tonight. Ended up with a bit of irritation on my neck but I think it was in part from last night’s shave. I did 3 passes and ended up DFS. I really like this knot. It holds tons of lather and releases just right for my liking. Used up the last bit of Speick and I’m thinking Skin Bracer for the next bottle to sit in the counter.
Have a good night Cadre!
 
I’ve been going back and forth about talking about where I was when I fell off the face of the earth for a month and I think I‘m comfortable enough now. For the last 2 decades or so I’ve been quietly dealing with ever increasing depression and anxiety. It took living in my truck for 2 months to give me the push I needed to get meaningful help. I ended up as an inpatient in a psychiatric hospital enrolled in a military program. I have to say it was the best thing I’ve ever done for myself. I learned a lot about myself and was able to work through quite a bit of stuff I’ve been suppressing over the years. I also reset my sleep cycle and am finally getting restful sleep for the first time I can remember. I still have a ways to go to get where I want to be but I feel like I’m on the right path and I’m looking at the future with positivity and optimism now.
I also want to thank everyone here at the Cadre for making this place a light in the darkness to me. If anyone here ever feels the need to reach out or just needs someone to talk to please feel free to hit me up.
I am SOOOO Happy you were able to find the help you needed. Or at least get you on the right path. I have mentioned before that I have my own demons I struggle with, and it's never easy. I think that you will find that the Cadre is here for you if you need someone to listen to you. Keep up the great work you are doing and let any of us know if you ever need anything!
 
Its all been said. Everything fine thing in life needs a tune up now and again from the finest watch that needs servicing before it breaks down to the finest wine that needs a 1/4 turn every week, month for the decades it takes to become legendary. Its just understood. So do we. I am so glad that you found the courage to reach out and find some peace.

Stay safe...we' really are just a message away.
 
Solid choice! I hope you have another bottle of Speick on order though! I don’t think I could be without it...or Skin Bracer for that matter!
I can’t decide between getting another bottle of Speick or a Barber bottle Proraso Green.....
 
I am SOOOO Happy you were able to find the help you needed. Or at least get you on the right path. I have mentioned before that I have my own demons I struggle with, and it's never easy. I think that you will find that the Cadre is here for you if you need someone to listen to you. Keep up the great work you are doing and let any of us know if you ever need anything!
Thanks Don! It took a loooong time to find the right path. Just gotta make sure I don’t get too lost again.
 
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