I am definitely in the "wear it if you like it" camp. There are a couple of female targeted perfumes that I own, like the Serge Lutens Fleur d'Oranger, and several that I want to get. I think I smell great today while wearing this "youthful clubbing fragrance" and was told by my wife that I smelled great in the Fleur d'Oranger as well as liking it myself.You're only as old as you smell @dkeester