I have to concur with you and your wife! Good call! You should add Hill Street Blues to that list (I’m a little older than you - so you may not remember that -
@BarberDave is much, much older than both of us - so he will remember it well).
And a shout out to
@NurseDave - while probably young like you with his debonair looks and his fan club - but in my time we also had medical dramas (even before ER) that rocked - St Elsewhere
On the humorous side - the TV Show Community did a spoof on L&O that was really funny (and that doesn’t take away from the gritty NY shows - they still rock, but sometimes it is good to laugh)