I am a lowly Tech, and have been away from playing radio for much too long. Local ham club politics soured me, but I can't add anything to this answer.
I will say I just bought the study guide and taught myself the theory, and knew a few guys at my church that served as Elmer's to me.
I NEED to upgrade to General. Hope to study this winter. Playing around on the HF bands will probably be semi-expensive, but I SURE ain't gettin' any younger!
Good luck Don; you'd be an incredible asset to the community my friend.