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Life –It’s all about the experience.

CBLindsay

I Blame Dave
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Live long enough and you learn a very important lesson, one that once embraced will change your life for the better. What is that lesson? We spend every day of our childhood trying to grow only to reach a certain point in our life where trying to hold on to our youth becomes our daily focus. The happiest people are those that know and accept that “The journey IS the destination”.

I bring this up here, on a The Shaving Cadre, a wet shaving & Gentlemanly interest’s forum, in hopes it will make YOUR journey a little more enjoyable and add value to The Shaving Cadre forum. Because I am an owner of The Shaving Cadre i should point out that, while this post is informed by my experience as an owner and an active member of the Cadre, the views and opinions expressed are my own and do not (necessarily) represent the forum or its owners.

I don’t recall exactly when it was that I decided to jump head-long into the wet shaving hobby, or when it became such a big part of my life but I can honestly say it changed my perspective on life and business. Maybe it was the Pinaud Lilac Vegetal…or maybe it was the Tabac lather, I don’t know. Whatever it was, I woke up one day and realized that daily shaving was a metaphor for life; if you are only going through the motions you might see it as a chore that brings you little enjoyment. On the other hand, if you embraced it and allow yourself to enjoy the experience you will find great enjoyment and even look forward to the opportunity a new day brings.

As I see it, wet shaving’s (life’s) experiences fall into 3 main categories. The first are those that are enjoyed by the senses such as the sights, smells, textures and feel of everything involved in the shave itself. The next are emotional, the sense of personal accomplishment you get from mastering the blade, the camaraderie and friendships you might find on the TSC (or a ‘lesser forum’) and the excitement you get from the other aspects the hobby exposes you to...things such as find & collecting new gear or exploring new products. Those who fall deep enough into the wet shaving hobby will no doubt have the opportunity to broaden their experiences through interactions with various vendors, artisans and retailers while they explore and play. It’s the interactions with vendors, artisans and retailers I wanted to spend a moment highlighting.

For some, like myself or the other vendors/artisans who support the shaving cadre, BEING an artisan who makes or sells the products wet shavers enjoy is an enhancement of our own experience...a way to make our own journey that much more enjoyable. For the rest of the wet shaving community, vendors, artisans and retailers are a means to an end...a way to feed the “acquisition disorders” and enhance their own experience. But for the dedicated enthusiast the buying experience itself is as meaningful as experiencing different soaps, brushes and razors.

The Shaving Cadre forum is unique because we recognize and embrace the idea that the artisans and vendors are part of the experience the most enthusiastic members seek and enjoy. Many of the more popular artisans understand this too, and they endeavor to make visiting their website, engaging them on social media, interacting on the TSC, and buying/owning/using their products as enjoyable and engaging an experience as possible. What we are talking about here goes beyond ‘good’ customer service, every good business person strives to give good customer service. This next-level experience is a result of the artisan making us all feel like we are part of his/her business, allowing us to feel like they are in business to serve our individual desires.

Wet Shaving (life) is very personal, artisans tend to offer a more personalized experience many in the wet shaving community find appealing. Whether it’s the ability to get to know an artisan or retailer on a more personal level by engaging them on The Shaving Cadre or the ability of artisans to be responsive to the needs and desires expressed by customers (or potential customers), many in the wet shaving community credit artisans with enhancing their journey.

As for me, whether it’s shaving or life, it’s all about the experience. I could get buried in the weeds, being worried about the things that aren’t perfect...but that would be a distraction from the experience. And if today’s experience was underwhelming, God willing I’ll get a re-do tomorrow.

So how deep into the wet shaving hobby have YOU fallen? Are you just going through the motions or are you living each shave to the fullest? You caught in the weeds...or are you enjoying the experiences for what they are?
 
I like to think of my wet shaving journey as a bell curve of dollars spent. Slow at the beginning, quickly ramping up to near ridiculous levels, then finally leveling off again as I learned that I didn't need a million shave soaps, brushes, razors, etc. to get a fantastic shave. Now I have products that I enjoy using that simply work well for me and deliver enjoyment each morning. I wouldn't call myself a minimalist, but have reduced the den to a very manageable level and one that my wife doesn't give me [too] much of a hard time about.

All that said, finding TSC was a great way to hammer home that for me, it's more about the community than the products themselves.
 
How Deep??????????
And Chris your sentitments are mine as well


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I agree wholeheartedly that the journey IS the destination. Those who rush through life without stopping to smell the roses miss out on so much. Its the small, simple pleasures that help make a chaotic world a little less stressful. For me it can be the cold beer after mowing the lawn, sitting in a chair on the patio tending the bbq with the ballgame on the radio, and yes, the daily shave. I set my alarm a little earlier on work days so I may enjoy the relaxation of a shave before engaging with the outside world. It is one of my simple pleasures that I treasure.
 
TLDR: Getting low on blades made me started be back down the road on this hobby, but interactions with @CBLindsay re-fired my love of it, and brought me to TSC.

Like many hobbies for me, things ebb and flow. Sometimes the bow out time is longer than others. In the case of wetshaving, I got into it in 2009 with a passion, and once I found what I enjoyed at the time simply coasted until recently. For me things had degraded back into shaving being a chore.

After realizing I was running low on blades, I had returned to another forum for information, and got pulled back in. One thing that I decided I just had to have was a Dragon’s Blood soap. Simple searches landed me a the website of CBL. Unfortunately the premium DB soap listed was “Out of Stock”. Well, I figured I may as well contact this guy and see when he may have more.

Chris fired up a conversation with me and let me know the Master Barber version was neigh. Based on that I waited and hit F5 many times until I could place an order. I snagged three different soaps, as a start. The conversation continued, when I tried the Smokey Mountain Cedar soap.

When I opened it, all I could discern in the aroma was good tallow soap. Ok, no problem...but wheres the smoke or cedar? I shaved with it anyway, and it was amazing soap, so no issue there, and I was happy to keep using it as is, but I felt the need to let Chris know in case other product was effected.

A wonderful conversation ensued. Chris tried to essentially send me another for free. I couldn’t let him do that, as I didn’t email him for free stuff, so I just placed another order knowing it would be fine, and it was. He took his personal time to make sure my experience was top notch, and it truly made a difference. Chris was even willing to entertain my wild ideas to add my own essential oils to the bum batch of soap, and suggested how to do it.

Frankly his interactions with me, the tone and tenor of his actions, led me to search a bit more on his products and led me to this forum, which certainly has that community feel that one wants when engaging in hobbies and conversation. So those important interactions with vendors and artisans, for me, was the catalyst to jump way back into this hobby.
 
“The journey IS the destination”.
That's the key, IMO. I like it about shaving, and with cycling. When riding, I'm not in a hurry to get anywhere (unless it starts to rain), rather, it's about enjoying the ride to the fullest, especially when riding with my sons. Even cigars and pipes have their own journey and hence, their own experiences.

I began wet shaving out of curiosity. One of my sons got me interested, and I was quickly bitten by the bug. I accumulated a handful of razors, brushes, splashes, and blades. I went hog wild over soaps, having roughly 25 in stock once or twice since beginning in 2012. I focus on the end result now, not on the gear. I remain curious about soaps and splashes, so the bulk of my experimentation is with those. I make no apologies for this approach - it's what works for me. I like to keep my shaves simple and my den sparse, so I 3017 every product I use. I will make an exception on occasion, but not often.

I sometimes end posts with the statement "Enjoy your shaves." I mean it, it's what this hobby of ours is mainly about. I love feeling clean shaven, and smelling good. And there is joy in the journey, if you stop and smell the soap.
 
When riding, I'm not in a hurry to get anywhere (unless it starts to rain),

during this quarantine since march I’ve started to walk/jog/run again as ive got a lot of me free time now. My wife joins me everyday... only last month or so was the first day we got caught in the rain, a crazy downpour, no rain gear, couldnt even see - the water was just pounding us. i think we panicked for the first 5-10 seconds and we were about 2 miles from home out of out 5 mile route. we looked at each other both started smiling, laughing and enjoying the rain as if were back in our childhood. I really didn’t rush home, it was such a nice change of pace.

I love feeling clean shaven, and smelling good. And there is joy in the journey, if you stop and smell the soap

you know i also love the feeling of being clean shaven, the great feeling and scents, during and after the shave, but i have to say there is also nothing like a good beard or growing your hair out (if ya can). and then one day taking it all off with a phenomenal edge and starting it all over.

totally agree with enjoying the journey, i just wish the journey didnt seem to be going so fast.
 
only last month or so was the first day we got caught in the rain, a crazy downpour, no rain gear, couldnt even see - the water was just pounding us. i think we panicked for the first 5-10 seconds and we were about 2 miles from home out of out 5 mile route. we looked at each other both started smiling, laughing and enjoying the rain as if were back in our childhood. I really didn’t rush home, it was such a nice change of pace.
That actually sounds quite nice........ so long as it wasn't a cold rain.
 
there is also nothing like a good beard or growing your hair out (if ya can). and then one day taking it all off with a phenomenal edge and starting it all over.
The last few times I've grown a beard, and it's been years, I've enjoyed them for months at a time. I liked to keep them neat and trim, and after awhile I'd get tired of the maintenance and shave them off. Even in the summer my cheeks would feel cold for a couple of days. Twice I tired of the beard in the middle of winter and shave. Not such a bright idea in January or February here in Pittsburgh!
 
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That actually sounds quite nice........ so long as it wasn't a cold rain.

my first thought was "oh sh!t, this sucks.." & i really don't know why I felt that way, we used to routinely be caught in blizzards... about 10 seconds later we were smiling ear to ear having a blast soaking wet. we now don't even fret it now, lately we've even started out in a drizzle.

The last few times I've grown a beard, and it's been years, I've enjoyed them for months at a time. I liked to keep them neat and trim, and after awhile I'd get tired of the maintenance and shave them off. Even in the summer my cheeks would feel cold for a couple of days. Twice I tired of the beard in the middle of winter and shave. Not such a bright idea in January or February here in Pittsburgh!

i thought i would love having a long beard, and to be honest it was great until i realized how much maintenance it was. too much work,, i was close to putting it into a big ol braid but it my wife wasn't digging it as much as i was.. I absolutely love having an ummaintained short beard.. I was growing the beards in the off season, and by the time winter rolled around, i was having to cut all my food and splay my moustache with one hand and feed myself with the other...
 
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